Archive for ‘time management’

September 8th, 2011

Making the Most of Your Time

by Holly Dodson

I know I’ve talked about this before on the blog, but it has been a long time, and a lot has changed in my life since then.  As a writer, there is always someone around me talking about time — whether there isn’t enough of it, they don’t know how I find it, or the dreaded question, “Is it being wasted?”

Let me break it down for you, and I want you to understand that this is something I struggle with a lot.  I think everyone does.

I work a full time job.  I commute 1.25 hours each way every day.  Every Monday night, Super Spawn has violin lessons.  Once or twice a month he has an extra lesson on Saturday morning.  We do violin practice every night for 10-20 minutes.  I have to feed, bathe, play with, and read to Super Spawn.

If I waited until he went to sleep every night to start thinking about my writing, I’d never get anything done.  So, here are some tricks I’ve learned to making the most of the few spare moments I can grab throughout the day.

1.  Time in the car -  I have about 15-20 minutes in the car between Super Spawn’s school and my office.  This is when I work through plot issues, or maybe work through the scene I’m going to write next.  This morning on the way in, Super Spawn was plugged into his DVD player in the car, and I was able to plan not only some things to add to previous chapters I’ve written, but I’ve also laid out the next two scenes to be written.  That will save me a lot of time when I sit down to write.

2.  Lunch – I’ve used my lunch hour to write since I first put pen to paper on my first novel back in 2009.  It’s probably my most productive writing time of the day.

3.  When kiddo is otherwise engaged – Super Spawn likes to play games/put puzzles together/otherwise entertain himself from time to time.  So I take my laptop into whatever room he’s in and type away while he plays at my feet.

4.  Bed time – Super Spawn loves to read at bed time, but his taste in books is somewhat different from most 4 year olds.  Ask him what his favorite book is and he’ll tell you Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban.  Seriously, that’s what he told his teacher.  So at bedtime we read some really great stories that not only challenge his imagination and keep him entranced, but also that keep me abreast of the industry.

5.  Night – Usually once Super Spawn finally drifts off, I’m exhausted too.  Still, it’s finally some uninterrupted peace to just sit and write.  If I could only hold my eyes open a little longer.  ;)

What do you all do to make the most out of your days?

July 12th, 2010

Mommy Monday

by Holly Dodson

Life is all a balancing act. We all have our obligations and desires. This week I thought we’d talk about keeping a balance between writing and family and work.
I know there are probably no two of us in the same situation, but knowing how others handle that precarious balance may help someone even out their life. A friend and I were talking the other day about the workaholic type people we know who don’t seem to know how to “turn it off” even if they go on vacation. Everything is about work to them.

The conversation got me thinking (I know, it’s dangerous when I think) about all the things I balance in life without letting one run over the other.

  1. Super-Spawn
  2. Work
  3. Writing
  4. Other family
  5. Social Life
  6. Housework
You get the picture. The point is, what can we do to make sure we aren’t cheating ourselves, or the ones we love, out of a fair share of US? Which we know is what they all most want.My life is divided into sections:

The work week- Days, work. (Lunch, writing, and a weekly lunch with my cousin) Evenings, Super Spawn. Nights, writing related things.

Saturdays- If it’s my weekend with SS, I take him somewhere fun (the movies, a museum, a play place in town, etc) and invite our friends. If it’s not- I get some quality me-time where I do whatever I want. May be that I write, go out with friends, whatever.

Sundays- Almost always devoted to housework.

And you better believe we live on a schedule within that schedule. Otherwise I’d never keep it all up. I manage to work, be a mom, write, have a social life (if a limited one), and get the house clean every single week.

Tell me, how do you keep the balance?

May 3rd, 2010

Mommy Monday

by Holly Dodson

For the last couple weeks I’ve found my writing time going by the way-side. This is not something I’m happy about. It makes me snippy and leaves me feeling overburdened by work and my emotions. Not a fun person to be around at all. So, sitting at my desk working diligently on a project for my boss I got to thinking.

People often say things like, “I haven’t found the time”, when asked if they’ve written anything new. Or when someone inquires on the status of edits they might say, “It’s taking a lot of time, and I just don’t have much these days.”

I’ve found myself guilty of the last one recently.

The truth may not be what you want to hear. Or what I want to hear either, but I know, for a fact, it works.

You don’t find time to do anything, you make time.

Priorities is what it all comes down to. Now, is my Super-Spawn going to be cast aside for writing time? No. He is my first priority always. But, that book I’m reading, that lunch date I’ve made? Those are negotiable.

I’m not telling anyone to give up reading and a social life. All I’m trying to say is everything you do is a choice. I chose to go out shopping on Saturday with Super-Spawn and Preggo instead of writing. I didn’t lose the time, I made a conscious decision. Here I am to admit that I need to start making better writing decisions. My edits are going dreadfully slow and it’s nobody’s fault but my own.

Just make up your mind and DO IT. It seems ridiculously simple, right? All it takes is the will power to back it up.

Hmmm, now where did I leave my will power?

What does this have to do with being Mommy? Well, everything. Being mommy defines my life. I work full time, cook, play, read, all of it for Super-Spawn. Everything I do is focused on and around him and that even includes my writing. I’d never be where I was today without the punk; he’s my inspiration. One day I’ll tell you the story of finding my inspiration for Emerald. You’ll see then how my writing really is because of him.