I’m not going to regale you with my life story here today, but I would like to share with you a tidbit of wisdom that has been passed down through my family over the years. It’s something I never understood as a child or teenager, but now that I’m a grownup (WHAT?! When did that happen?) I actually get it. And use it on Super Spawn quite often.
My very favorite saying is: Can’t never could.
My Pappy used to say this, which my mom picked up, which now I catch myself repeating to Super Spawn.
At first, I never got it. Can’t never could? Duh. Because he can’t. Says so right there in the first word.
Ah, to be a child.
I realize now the wisdom my grandpa and mother were trying to impart. The fact is that if you say you can’t, you never will. If you believe you can’t, then of course you won’t! But if you take that silly little word out of the equation, suddenly anything and everything is possible. Even if it doesn’t wind up turning out the way you thought it would, you proved something: You CAN try.
And you should try, because if you never try you’ll never learn, and you may miss out on something wonderful.
With NaNoWriMo over halfway through, and my own WIP being a bit stubborn here lately, I’ve found myself thinking a lot of can’ts. I guess this is my way of acknowledging it and setting them aside. Because all I have to do is try, and I can. And that’s all you have to do as well.
Because can’t never could.






