Archive for ‘motivation’

November 10th, 2011

Wasted

by Holly Dodson
“Thank goodness someone thinks I’m not wasting my time.”

I saw a comment much like the one above on Query Tracker a while back that struck home.  It was something I was struggling with at the time (it wasn’t very long ago in honesty), and I had even gone so far as to email a few of my writer friends in a low moment, “Please tell me I’m not wasting my time.”

 

Of course, being the great friends they are, I got rapid-fire emails saying exactly that, “You’re not wasting your time.”

And they’re right, I’m not.

If I were wasting my time, I wouldn’t be writing.  I’d be hiding from my dreams of being published, too scared to try.

Wasting my time would be doing something that doesn’t hold any intrinsic value to me.

To be wasted, my time would have to be spent doing something that at the end, I have nothing to show for.

If my time were wasted, I wouldn’t be making some of the best and most supportive friends I’ve ever had.

If I were wasting my time, I wouldn’t love it so much.

We all have those moments of doubt, I know.  I have them more often than I care to admit.  But, in reality, no matter how insecure you are about your writing or how far you go with it, doing something you love will never be a waste of time.

I have written three books and started on the fourth, and I’m more proud of those than anything in this world (except Super Spawn of course).  Even if they never see the light of day, I am still incredibly proud of them!  Writing makes me happy, and it’s something I will never stop doing no matter what.

This is not a waste of time.

August 18th, 2011

Practice Makes Perfect

by Holly Dodson

It has been a busy week in the world of Holly.  We’re gearing up for moving into the big 4-K class on Monday with Super Spawn, starting violin lessons (along with daily practice sessions), Write On Con, end of year party cupcake baking and, you know, sleep.

Thanks to Erinn, I didn’t miss this amazing video, hosted by Write On Con, done by Beth Revis.

Then last night Super Spawn had his first official violin lesson — complete with a mile-long list of things to practice for next week — and between the two, my mind started churning.  While I was coming up with ways to encourage practice for Super Spawn, and keep it from turning into a battle, I realized something about writing.

When you’re in the middle of drafting with no end in sight, your last book didn’t work out quite like you hoped… Sometimes the grass on the couch in front of the TV looks a whooooole lot greener than the stuff on the computer screen.  Which is kinda the same battle I’m gearing up for with Super Spawn, at least to start with.  There’s tons of stuff you’d rather do than sit and practice something that feels endless, right?  I mean, I’ve been there.

We’ve talked before about rewarding ourselves for hitting milestones.  Completing a draft, finishing revisions, whatever.  I think that’s great — and it’s something I do for myself.  But I also think it’s important to celebrate the small victories.  I practiced (wrote) for 30 minutes tonight, I deserve ice cream.

Even then, the real reward for our devoted writing is improvement.  Just like Super Spawn’s bow hold will get better and better each day, so will our prose, and that’s the best reward of all.  Because one day when the Spawn is standing on stage for a recital, playing his Twinkle variations, he’ll be glad he spent that time with his violin instead of the TV, even if it takes him years to get to that point.

And one day when you’re holding a shiny book in your hands, you’ll be glad you did the same.

Happy writing, guys.  Don’t give up.  :)

August 8th, 2011

Motivation for Monday

by Holly Dodson

Mondays always seem to be my slowest moving day of the week.  My brain wants to remain in relaxed weekend mode, and my day job (er, and my MS) wants me to get off my butt and get to work!

So, I thought for this most unmotivated day of the week, I’d share some things I use to kick my motivation (and my writing) into high gear.

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Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice; it is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved. ~ Winston Churchill

I write for the same reason I breathe – because if I didn’t, I would die.  ~ Isaac Asimov

What gets you motivated to dive into work?