Archive for ‘inspiration’

February 13th, 2013

Road Trip Wednesday – A Love Affair with Writing

by Holly Dodson

Road Trip Wednesday is a ‘Blog Carnival,’ where YA Highway‘s contributors post a weekly writing- or reading-related question that begs to be answered. In the comments, you can hop from destination to destination and get everybody’s unique take on the topic.

This Week’s Topic is: It’s (the day before) Valentine’s Day! Let’s jump start the lovefest by blogging about what you love most about writing (and/or reading)!

My bet is this is something most of us as writers think about frequently.  I know it’s my love of writing that keeps me pushing through the tough spots.

But what I love most? Well, it’s probably the same thing I love about reading, just a little…deeper.

I love the escape.

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When I’m writing from another character’s perspective it’s like slipping out of my shoes and stepping into theirs. It’s putting on a new face and becoming someone I’d never have a chance to be in real life. Pushing boundaries, testing waters, making magic happen where the real world would never allow.

To me, writing is freedom of imagination and the power to both create and destroy people and dreams that wouldn’t exist without me.

I LOVE that.

I LOVE being able to let go of all my troubles, all my fears, all my personal qualms and become an uninhibited teen again.

What about you guys? What’s the part you love most about writing? Share here or over at YAHighway.

January 14th, 2013

The Soccer Mom and the Novel

by Holly Dodson

Well it’s midnight and I can’t sleep, so I figure I may as well blog and get it all off my chest.  I’ll apologize now for anything that doesn’t make sense.

So I had an awesome chat with my amazing mentor for pitch wars Sunday morning.  I swear, I feel so lucky to have Danielle as my mentor.  Not only is she brilliant (and she is very brilliant), but she also likes Doctor Who and Merlin and all the right TV shows, and that’s just full of WIN in my book. But we’re here to talk writing, not TV.  Not today anyway.

I’m laying in bed trying to go to sleep running through all the things Danielle and I discussed today about my story and directions I can take to make it even better.  You know how that goes…every time you close your eyes a new idea pops in your head and you have to run through how that would play out and fit with the rest of the story.  Yeah.  No wonder writers tend to have sleepless nights.  Anyway, amidst that I got to thinking about soccer.

Yep, Super Spawn is playing soccer.  I am an official soccer mom and loving every bug-bitten, freezing cold, hard-bleacher-sitting minute of it.  (And that was not intended sarcastically.  I really am loving it.)

(And as a side note, I’m starting to feel like I could make a writing analogy out of any scenario.  Maybe I’ll make it a game.  We’ll see how many I can come up with this year.  Ha. Feel free to tell me to shut up already.)

So soccer and writing.  Fun stuff.  When you’re playing soccer (or watching, as I am) the ball gets passed around a lot.  It gets run up field and down field and out of bounds, all the while you’re trying to steer it in direction of your goal.  You have that target and you know how to get it there, but making that dumb round bit of bouncy leather GET there, well, that’s the challenge.  Then you’ve got people out there blocking and parrying your moves.  Trying to knock you off course or even steal the ball right out from under you.

Nobody is in the wrong here.  They have a goal too.  It’s how the game is played.  You kick to your teammate, they kick a bit off course, and before you know it the whistle is blowing and the ball is being thrown in the other direction.  You’re scrambling to catch up and redirect it back toward that silly little goal with the ever-so-competent goalie.

It’s exhausting just talking about soccer.  But really, how different is all that from writing a book?  You write it, you get it beta’d, you edit it, and you kick it out there, hoping for the best.  Then that defensive player smashes it halfway down the field and you’re backtracking, trying to scramble and pull the game together again.

The thing is, no matter how many times the goalie deflects you, no matter how many trips up field you have to make, as long as you’re playing, you’ve got a chance at bringing home the win.

As Super Spawn himself says, “Never, ever give up. If you keep trying then you’ll learn to do it.”

How did I raise such a wise little boy?

And as a treat for enduring yet another writing is like THIS post from me, here’s (rather cute) proof of my soccer mom status:

 

Super Spawn is the goalie here.

Super Spawn is the goalie here.

November 20th, 2012

Wisdom Through Generations

by Holly Dodson

I’m not going to regale you with my life story here today, but I would like to share with you a tidbit of wisdom that has been passed down through my family over the years.  It’s something I never understood as a child or teenager, but now that I’m a grownup (WHAT?!  When did that happen?) I actually get it.  And use it on Super Spawn quite often.

My very favorite saying is: Can’t never could.

My Pappy used to say this, which my mom picked up, which now I catch myself repeating to Super Spawn.

At first, I never got it.  Can’t never could?  Duh.  Because he can’t.  Says so right there in the first word.

Ah, to be a child. 

I realize now the wisdom my grandpa and mother were trying to impart.  The fact is that if you say you can’t, you never will.  If you believe you can’t, then of course you won’t!  But if you take that silly little word out of the equation, suddenly anything and everything is possible.  Even if it doesn’t wind up turning out the way you thought it would, you proved something: You CAN try.

 

And you should try, because if you never try you’ll never learn, and you may miss out on something wonderful.

With NaNoWriMo over halfway through, and my own WIP being a bit stubborn here lately, I’ve found myself thinking a lot of can’ts. I guess this is my way of acknowledging it and setting them aside.  Because all I have to do is try, and I can.  And that’s all you have to do as well.

Because can’t never could.

May 23rd, 2012

The Constant Battle

by Holly Dodson

This post could start out a lot of ways:  “As a writer” would be one.  “As a mother” would be another.  Or “As a woman” could be yet another option for an appropriate beginning.  Actually, there are probably a thousand ways you could start this post, because it’s something we all think about, and we all struggle with forever and ever no matter what:

Insecurity.

I think writers as a whole are a notoriously insecure group of people.  Perhaps it comes with the territory.  Which, if that means anything, it’s that we’re not alone in the way we feel.

A couple of perfect examples of how NOT alone we are would be this post from Rachelle Gardner (a literary agent) on the 7 Bad Habits of Successful Writers, and Shannon Messenger’s video blog on Friday the Thirteeners about giving up.

But when you’re in the throes of an oh my gracious I suck and will always suck and nobody has ever sucked as much as I suck in the world of suckdom moment…well, sometimes company isn’t enough.

So this post — this whole thought process, I suppose — has been a long time coming.  Over the last few weeks (or, you know, forever, but just more so in the last few weeks) I’ve been struggling with my own insecurities.  That ever-constant plaguing thought: I’m not good enough.

And well, fact is, maybe I’m not.  Before you go lashing me for that statement, let me finish.

What I’m talking about is this dream — this goal of publication.  This continuous effort to reach out and blog and network and build a platform and write book after book…

Writing in itself is incredibly hard, as I’ve talked about before.  Add on all the extra pressure of trying to get published or building a name for yourself online, and you’ve got a pot ready to boil over.  And that’s okay.
Something I’ve come to terms with in the last couple of weeks is that maybe this feeling is something that needs to be embraced instead of pushed away.  I think a right lot of us are constantly battling that fear, pushing it off, trying to move forward without it.
But the fact is, it’s that fear — that worry that we really aren’t good enough — that keeps us pressing forward in the first place.  That’s what helps us grow.  What helps us reach heights we never dreamed were possible.
And you know I’m right.
Count this as me embracing my insecurity, saying, “Yeah, maybe I’m not good enough, but I will be one day.”
Then I want you to say it too.  Because no matter how badly you feel about your writing, your life, your anything today, the thing is: you can change it for tomorrow.  All it is is a choice.
And that, my friends, is my deep thought for the week.  lol  I always seem to come back from my little blog breaks full of these ponderings, don’t I?

April 23rd, 2012

Things Writers Say…

by Holly Dodson
Today I thought I’d share some quotes I’ve collected over time related to writing that I enjoy.  At the very least, they make me smile, so I hope they will for you as well…

Have something to say, and say it as clearly as you can. That is the only secret.
- Matthew Arnold

 
It is the writer who might catch the imagination of young people, and plant a seed that will flower and come to fruition.
- Isaac Asimov

 
I believe more in the scissors than I do in the pencil.
- Truman Capote

 
Books aren’t written, they’re rewritten. Including your own. It is one of the hardest things to accept, especially after the seventh rewrite hasn’t quite done it…
- Michael Crichton

 
What we call fiction is the ancient way of knowing, the total discourse that antedates all the special vocabularies….Fiction is democratic, it reasserts the authority of the single mind to make and remake the world.
- E. L. Doctorow

 
Get it down. Take chances. It may be bad, but it’s the only way you can do anything really good.
- William Faulkner

 
When writing a novel, that’s pretty much entirely what life turns into: ‘House burned down. Car stolen. Cat exploded. Did 1500 easy words, so all in all it was a pretty good day.’
- Neil Gaiman

 
A great deal of talent is lost to the world for want of a little courage.
- Sidney Smith

April 9th, 2012

Distractions Can Inspire

by Holly Dodson

I’ll not lie.  For the last, oh, two weeks I guess I have been quite distracted from writing.  (From life, really.)  I tend to go through these phases of needing to hide in a world that isn’t my own.  Maybe we all do, I don’t know.  This time though, I fell into the world of a TV show, and boy did I fall in love.

See, my lovely friend Erinn always talks about how wonderful Doctor Who is, so I gave it a try.

Oh. My. Gravy.

I may or may not have watched four entire seasons of the Doctor (plus the specials) in the last two weeks.  (I did.)  And it may or may not have been the most amazing television show I’ve ever, ever seen in my life.  (It was.  Is.  Who am I kidding?  I’ve already ordered the DVD’s.)

And it’s not just that David Tennant is a little bit foxy (if you’ve seen season two, you get the joke), but that does help.

 

Admittedly, I haven’t watched the 5th or 6th seasons yet with the eleventh doctor.  I’m so attached to the 10th doctor, it’s going to be a hard transition for me.  :)   YES, I’M CRAZY.  It’s okay.  I like me this way.

Anywho…my break from reality into the world of Time Lords and fantastic romance turned out to be incredibly inspiring.  The character development and interaction in this show is unbelievable.  You’ve got the funny lines, the quirky characters, Rose (OMG Rose + the Doctor = best TV romance EVER), the over-the-top action of saving the world in pretty much every episode…I mean, how could I not be inspired by that?

Now I’m itching to write.  Itching to put all of these ideas and things that I’ve learned into my new story.

But I want to know, do you have a particular TV show that has inspired you?  (Apparently I’m into TV shows lately.  Don’t know why, but eh, whatever. It’s fun.)  Or, you know, we could just talk about the epicness that is Doctor Who in the comments…I’m all for that too.  ;)

March 12th, 2012

Monday Inspiration

by Holly Dodson

I’m away from the computer today, just in case you’re wondering.  Not that you are.  Today I’m actually perched somewhere in a hospital waiting room (don’t worry, it’s not for anything serious) doing those tiresome things called line edits.  Oy.  Of course they’re totally necessary even if they aren’t the most fun part of revisions.

So, since I’m stuck in tedium, I thought I’d share a bit of inspiration with you.  Hope you enjoy.

 

 

Happy Monday, friends.  :)

February 8th, 2012

Again and Again

by Holly Dodson

I was just sitting here staring at my planner, which looks something like this:

Work stuff, work stuff, work stuff, and yes, more work stuff.  Revisions, revisions, revisions, revisions, revisions. BEACH.

 

This beach, actually.  For real.

 

There is a light at the end of the tunnel, folks.  ;)

So, yeah, as if all my revision and beta talk hasn’t been clue enough, I have officially taken the dive back into TATE’S HELL.  That sounds…horrible.  I dove into Hell?  Nah, it’s not that bad.  Though sometimes I do feel like beating my head against a wall.  I think we all reach that point at times.

I did a LOT of reading over the past few weeks while I waited for feedback and then allowed it to percolate, and I’m refreshed.  I’m ready to get my hands dirty again.

Plus, guys, I get to go to the beach this weekend which is going to be full of awesome.   The weather is lovely here in good ole’ Florida, and the ocean is calling my name.  Maybe I can take some pages with me to work on…I may just find the answer to all my troubles buried in the sugary sand.

I can’t wait.

 

 One of my new favorite quotes for revisions.

 

Have you guys got any fun and inspiring adventures planned for this weekend?

November 10th, 2011

Wasted

by Holly Dodson
“Thank goodness someone thinks I’m not wasting my time.”

I saw a comment much like the one above on Query Tracker a while back that struck home.  It was something I was struggling with at the time (it wasn’t very long ago in honesty), and I had even gone so far as to email a few of my writer friends in a low moment, “Please tell me I’m not wasting my time.”

 

Of course, being the great friends they are, I got rapid-fire emails saying exactly that, “You’re not wasting your time.”

And they’re right, I’m not.

If I were wasting my time, I wouldn’t be writing.  I’d be hiding from my dreams of being published, too scared to try.

Wasting my time would be doing something that doesn’t hold any intrinsic value to me.

To be wasted, my time would have to be spent doing something that at the end, I have nothing to show for.

If my time were wasted, I wouldn’t be making some of the best and most supportive friends I’ve ever had.

If I were wasting my time, I wouldn’t love it so much.

We all have those moments of doubt, I know.  I have them more often than I care to admit.  But, in reality, no matter how insecure you are about your writing or how far you go with it, doing something you love will never be a waste of time.

I have written three books and started on the fourth, and I’m more proud of those than anything in this world (except Super Spawn of course).  Even if they never see the light of day, I am still incredibly proud of them!  Writing makes me happy, and it’s something I will never stop doing no matter what.

This is not a waste of time.

August 25th, 2011

Momspiration

by Holly Dodson

By which I mean Mom Inspiration, not perspiration.  ;)

It has been a little over a week since Super Spawn started his private violin lessons, and the little guy has impressed me more and more each day.

I’m not talking about technical proficiency or anything here, his bow hold is far from perfect, but I’m talking about dedication.  My four-year-old son practices for 20-30 minutes every night, no complaint.  He listens to the CD of music he’ll be learning over the next year for a minimum of an hour a day.

And he never complains.  Quite the opposite, he enjoys it.

Honestly, if I forget to turn his music on as soon as he gets in the car, he reminds me.  I’m just amazed at the level of devotion he is already showing toward his violin, and it’s more than a little inspiring.  He enjoys doing it, looks forward to it even, and then follows through and puts forth the effort to learn something new.

Each of his lessons, his teacher has started by asking him, “Super Spawn, do you still want to learn to play violin?”  To which he responds by jumping and yelling, “Yes!”

When I sit back and think about it, I get a little hot in the face.  I mean, I love writing.  I love building stories and crafting characters and everything that comes along with it.  But do I practice every day with excitement for what I’m doing?  No.  And maybe I should be.

I’m making a resolution in front of all of you, my lovely followers.  From now on, I am going to approach my writing like Super Spawn approaches his violin — with love, excitement, and dedication.  I won’t look at it as work, but as an enjoyable time I get to spend doing something that makes me truly happy.

What about you guys?  Want to join in on my pledge?

My name is Holly, and I write for the love of it.  Do you?